Do you need goals? the importance of goal setting, how benefits you, the best way to set effective goals and why you shouldn't stop trying to achieve them.

The Importance of Goal Setting

Do you need goals? the importance of goal setting, how benefits you, the best way to set effective goals and why you shouldn't stop trying to achieve them.

Personally, I feel like I am in a sense of limbo if I am not working towards a goal! Whether that is fitness, work, blogging or parenting, I tend to stay motivated and succeed if I am working towards something to keep me on track. 

I lost 5 stone on my weight loss journey and I did that in stages. Although I had an end goal in mind (9 stone) that feels like a long way off when you are at 14 stone and can’t see the end of the tunnel and so smaller targets help to keep you motivated and on several occasions stopped me from giving up. I want to talk about the importance of goal setting as well as what I am looking towards now because everyone assumes that now I am at my target weight I have nothing to work towards which simply isn’t true.

The Benefits of Goal Setting

In case you’re still not convinced and don’t want to take my word for it,  here are some of the benefits that I have gained from setting goals!

Motivation – When you have mapped out something that you want and know exactly how to get it, it gives you motivation because there is an end in sight. You know you have to achieve certain steps or things and then you will reach the thing you really want. If you don’t set goals, you still know what you want but not how to get there which can be demoralizing and doesn’t make it feel real in your mind!

Focus – Defining clear goals can help keep you on track, avoids going off on a tangent and keeps things clear in your mind. Staying focused is key to achieving what you want and this is easier when you have clear targets in front of you.

Purpose – Without something to achieve or do, we tend to get stuck in limbo and go through life on “autopilot” which can lead to depression and stop you from appreciating things. Channeling your energy into something and improving your own life can give you a sense of empowerment and the confidence to make the changes that you want and creates a sense of purpose.

Faster – Because you are focused and motivated, it means that you tend to achieve your goals faster because you know exactly what you want and you have got the fastest path to get there.

Appreciation – You know how hard you have worked to get to this point, which means you appreciate how things feel when you achieve them, or even what it feels like to fail. This makes you more empathetic to others and can make you appreciate what you have and its true worth.

Overall, setting goals gives you a greater sense of achievement all round and that is something that can add light structure to your life too. If you have ever felt like you really wanted something but you aren’t sure how to get there, setting a goal can help you on your first step. Now, it’s all good and well talking about goals and how great they are but how do you set them properly? and what makes a good goal? Because not all goals are created equal!

How to set a goal

You may or may not have heard of SMART goals and this is something that I was introduced to in the world of business and management and actually, it definitely applies to fitness and other areas too. Whenever I set myself a target, big or small, this is what I consider while I do. Here is an easy explanation to SMART and how it ties in with your goals.

SMART stands for:

Specific – Know the details, use numbers, timings and restrictions so that you stay on track and know exactly what you are after

Measurable – How will you know along the way (or at the end) how you will achieve it?

Achievable – There’s a fine line between a challenge and something that isn’t achievable!

Relevant – Is the goal helping to work towards your larger aim?

Time – How long is it going to take you to achieve?

The more information and thought you put into goal setting, the more likely you are to achieve them because you have a clear path to get there.

a goal without a plan is just a wish - the importance of goal setting

So Now you know how to set a goal and why you should, but don’t forget that they are specific to you! Something you consider really easy may in fact take a lot longer for someone else so make sure that you keep them relevant and specific to your needs. Anything that isn’t challenging enough won’t push you to carry on when times get tough and something that is too hard will feel unattainable and you’ll quit pretty easily. Try testing out some short-term goals for yourself until you get more confidence and then you can aim for making larger, long-term changes.

My Goals for the next 6 months:

So, at the moment I am aiming to do quite a few things in different aspects of my life and I thought to give you some inspiration I would outline my goals for the next 6 months.

As a parent: Read at least 4 times per week with the little guy to improve his reading and encourage creativity.

As a netball player: Focus on strength exercises to improve and strengthen my ankle after its injury as well as improving my jumping ability to make me more agile.

As a runner: Start a 16 week training program to build my stamina from 10k up to 14 miles (just over half marathon distance) and boost my speed to beat my current personal best of 1:57:20

As a blogger: Keep up with 2 new posts each week throughout Christmas and the New Year!

As a wife: Make sure I put down the blog, work, housework, devices and put aside the lists and everything in my head to be in the moment and aim to have at least one calm evening that we can spend properly together bonding and working on our relationship to stop life getting in the way.

As you can see I clearly have a lot to work on, I may reach some of these, I may not. You will also notice that most of these will require shorter interim goals to meet before getting to these, but wish me luck!

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Written by Charlotte

Founder at The Mummy Toolbox

36 Comments

  • Sinziana Romanescu (#)
    November 19th, 2016

    Good luck with your goals!

  • Kathleen - Bloggers Lifestyle (#)
    November 18th, 2016

    This is an excellent post. I like SMART goals too, they are very practical. All the best in reaching your goals, I like them all except running 14 miles, way too much. 🙂

  • sue (#)
    November 17th, 2016

    Love SMART process for setting goals Charlotte as it is so easy to set up. I’ve also seen three other ways to achieve your dream which I’ve written a post about. Publishing next week. Thanks for the inspiration for 2017.

  • Stacey Daprile (#)
    November 17th, 2016

    I am all about setting goals It is the only way that I can keep myself accountable. I love the SMART goals setting approach because it is measurable. Good luck with your goals.

  • Leslie Hernandez (#)
    November 17th, 2016

    I always set up goals every week and every month, to succeed in life and in order to make out dreams come true we need to set goals. I have my planner where I write down every single goal, plan or ideas just to keep me on track and motivated.

    Great Post!!!

  • Amanda Love (#)
    November 17th, 2016

    I believe in setting goals as well, it’s a great way to keep you on track with the things that you want in life. I hope you reach your goals for the next 6 months!

  • Melissa (#)
    November 17th, 2016

    I love SMART goals. It’s the only way to actually achieve them! Great for New Years resolutions too

  • Rachel (#)
    November 16th, 2016

    Goal setting is so important in life and in work. I think it is great to write them down but the key is to always make them specific and measurable like you have stated.

  • RachelSwirl (#)
    November 16th, 2016

    I became fed up with SMART targets being a teacher, I tend to just write lists these days and if I tick something off then its a bonus. Great post though x

  • Amanda @ Old House to New Home (#)
    November 16th, 2016

    I love setting goals, you have some great ones here! My biggest goal in the next six months is to get my home organized and get rid of the clutter!

  • Taylor Mobley (#)
    November 16th, 2016

    Making goals is the only way that I can stay sane as a full time student and blogger! I set little goals daily, weekly, monthly. They are achievable and I feel good when I reach them.

  • Carolina (#)
    November 16th, 2016

    The measurable aspect of goal setting is such a game-changer for me. I defintely need that encouragement that comes with accomplishing things step by step!

  • Debbie-jean Lemonte (#)
    November 16th, 2016

    I use the SMART system all the time. I’m very organized and it works everytime.

  • Debra (#)
    November 16th, 2016

    Goal setting is so important and can make you feel so good about yourself when you accomplish them!

  • Debra (#)
    November 16th, 2016

    It’s so good for you to set goals and accomplish things! It makes you feel so good and does wonders for your confidence!

  • CourtneyLynne (#)
    November 16th, 2016

    Love this! I’m goal obsessed!!! Every January I even make a vision board. Crazy how much you achieve when you map things out

  • Samantha (#)
    November 15th, 2016

    This is wonderful! When I feel overwhelmed I know I am not setting goals and I need to make a list, stick to it and prioritize!

  • Jessica (#)
    November 15th, 2016

    Setting goals is so important in every aspect of your life. It’s important to be purposeful about what you are doing.

  • Carolyn (#)
    November 15th, 2016

    Yours are great goals. I also have some goals of blogging 1-2 times a week and cleaning out some toys to make room for all the new stuff. 🙂

  • Tahnee (#)
    November 15th, 2016

    I totally agree with this post! But I am the worst when it comes to journaling or goal setting! I need to try better having kids!

  • Wendy | The Art of "Why Not?" (#)
    November 15th, 2016

    I always struggle with goal setting. The SMART technique has helped!

  • Terri Steffes (#)
    November 15th, 2016

    We use SMART goals in school settings all over our state but it is fun to see it outside that setting.

  • Dana Vento (#)
    November 15th, 2016

    I’ve never thought these before! This is really helpful. I’m a person who setting up goals in mind but I think, it’s not great.

  • Wendy Polisi (#)
    November 15th, 2016

    I totally agree with these! Setting goal is important, it’s a great way to reach your goals.

  • Robin Rue (#)
    November 15th, 2016

    Goal setting to me is so important. I need to know where I am heading so that I know what I need to do to be able to get there.

  • Brittany Muddamalle (#)
    November 15th, 2016

    I was taught at a young age to set goals. Setting goals is so important to get you further in so many things from working out to saving money. Great post!

  • Reesa Lewandowski (#)
    November 15th, 2016

    This was the first year I really set some goals for my blog and I spent the entire year working with them in mind.

  • Karlie (#)
    November 15th, 2016

    There is nothing I love more than setting goals. I’m someone who needs them so I don’t lose focus of what I really want out of life. And you’re right, it totally motivates and pushes me to get there so I can check it off the list – no better feeling.

  • Kristie (#)
    November 15th, 2016

    Goals are definitely important. Going into the new year is better to make changes than waiting until after. Great tips.

  • karen (#)
    November 14th, 2016

    Goals are a definite way to keep on track and growing. I am all about the measurable goals, but sometimes I like to just have those lofty loose goals to keep as a backup! 😉

  • Kecia | OnlineIncomeMom (#)
    November 14th, 2016

    Setting SMART goals is so important if you really want to be successful. I have to sit down and think about my SMART goals for 2017!

  • Angela Tolsma (#)
    November 14th, 2016

    oh this resonates with me so much! I have always been a massive goal setter and recently we’ve hit every single goal we’ve every made except one and now I don’t know what to do! It’s time to reset and move forward! It’s nice to have how to go about it all nicely laid out

  • Brittany (#)
    November 14th, 2016

    I absolutely loved this post! I’m such a strong believer in setting goals and SMART goals at that! I will definitely be referencing this post as I make my 2017 business goals!

    • Charlotte (#)
      November 15th, 2016

      can’t wait to see your goals for 2017!!

  • Cristina (#)
    November 14th, 2016

    I thing goals can also be set in stages or to me they become too overwhelming. I have short, medium and long term goals. That helps me not feel like I have too much at any point.

  • Stephanie (#)
    November 14th, 2016

    Yes, yes, yes! If I dont set goals and break them down into manageable steps, I feel like I get nowher I don’t focus and jump all over the place! – on a side note, this is one of the reasons I LOVE bullet journalling. It really helps keep me on point with the goals I set.

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